It’s time to apologize!
One of a Christian’s most powerful words is “I’m sorry.” Not out of habit, not to smooth things over, but from a heart that understands the weight of sin and the beauty of grace. As followers of Jesus Christ, we are not called to pretend we’re perfect — we are called to walk in the light. And walking in the light means acknowledging when we fall.
Jesus didn’t die so we could hide behind pride. He died so we could be free — free to confess, repent, and be made new. And yet, how often do we allow silence and stubbornness to replace simple, healing words? Scripture tells us in James 5:16, “Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” There’s healing in confession. There’s freedom in a genuine apology.
In Matthew 18, Jesus lays out how we should handle conflict. Reconciliation isn’t a suggestion—it’s a command. If we have hurt someone, we are called to go to them, make it right, and humble ourselves. When we apologize, we are not only fixing a relationship—we are building the kingdom of God—a kingdom where grace flows, walls come down, and the enemy loses ground.
Don’t Forget
Let’s not forget: Jesus hung on a cross between two thieves, and one of them said, “Remember me.” Jesus didn’t hesitate. He forgave instantly. That’s the heart of God. When we apologize, we align ourselves with that heart. We admit we need mercy and open the door to healing.
Let’s stop thinking that apologies make us weak. No — apologies make us Christlike. Pride builds walls, but humility builds bridges. This world doesn’t need more walls. The church needs to rise with humility, go first, and say, “Forgive me.” Even when the other person was wrong, too. Even when it’s hard.
So, if the Lord is nudging your heart, don’t delay. Send the text. Make the call. Have the conversation. Be the one who starts the healing. Apologizing doesn’t make you less of a Christian; it makes you more of one. It’s time to apologize.
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