Trust The Process

Trust the process. Merriam-Webster’s dictionary defines a process as “a continuing development involving many changes.”

Time is referred to many times throughout Scripture, with over 500 verses that refer to time in some manner. Solomon, a man of wisdom, taught us that “to everything, there is a season, a time and a purpose under heaven.” There is a time to do everything that needs to be done, and there are processes that must take place in each of our lives—developments, and changes that must occur in different seasons of life. Oftentimes, these changes can be painful or complex, and many give up during the process.

The phrase “in the process of time” appears several times in the Old Testament and has always caught my attention. Many years occur during “the process of time,” yet we do not know what happens during those years.

Some processes also occur in our lives—some we are aware of, others we may not be. These “processes of time” are often necessary for growth, change, and healing. The process can look different for each of us. Many times, processes are taking place in the lives of those around us—situations are evolving, people are changing, and healing may be happening—yet we know nothing about the details of any of it.

Consider the Process of Recovery

Consider the process of recovery or counseling. These processes can often feel frustrating for the individual. I frequently say, “Trust the process,” to a couple or a struggling wife whose husband has been working through his addiction recovery.

When it comes to recovery, change, and healing, we usually want to speed up the process. This is because we don’t want to feel the pain that inevitably comes with these situations or possibly because we don’t want to do the work required to change or heal. And there is work needed on our part. Change and healing don’t just happen. We often think it’s time that heals, but it’s what we do with the time that heals.

“In the process of time…” I wonder what that might look like in your life. What events might take place during those years? What steps could you take to start the process? Who could you bring alongside you to help you in the process? A friend, spouse, pastor, or counselor? These are all great options for people who could help you on your journey. The process will involve work and patience, and I’m sure tears of pain and frustration will be shed. Many of those around you will see the before and after. Only you and God will likely see what’s in between: Someone willing to do the work. Someone who developed patience along the way and is relying on God to help them. Someone who learned to trust the process.